Virginia Dee Napolitano

Virginia “Dee” Napolitano was born on November 8, 1967, in the Bronx, New York, and passed away on October 30, 2026, in Delray Beach, Florida, at the age of 58. Her family will remember her most for her enormous heart, infectious smile, and unapologetically authentic sense of humor.

Virginia found her greatest joy in being involved in her children’s lives and celebrating their interests, sports, hobbies, and accomplishments throughout their childhood. She loved spending time with family and friends, listening to live music, enjoying a good time, and exploring new places. She also carried a tremendous love for her beloved dogs, LuLu, Leo, and Lolly, who have crossed the rainbow bridge but will always hold a special place in her heart. She had a creative spirit and a knack for DIY projects, always finding joy in making something her own. Whether embarking on an adventure, gathering with friends, starting a new project, or simply walking her dogs, she treasured being part of life’s moments and making memories along the way.

Above all else, Virginia's greatest accomplishment and the role she cherished most was being a mother. Her children were her world, and she took immense pride in loving, raising, supporting, and always being there for them. She was a devoted mother whose love, guidance, humor, honesty, and unwavering support helped shape the people her children are today. Being their mom was more than just a part of her life; it was her greatest purpose, her proudest accomplishment, and the legacy she leaves behind.

Virginia is survived by her children, Thomas and his wife Tara Rooney. ToniMarie (Amodeo) Zeyher and her husband, Kyle Zeyher; Thomas “TJ” Amodeo III and his fiancée, Ashley Lependorf. She also leaves behind her beloved five grandchildren: Theodor Rooney, Ethan Rooney, Madilyn Zeyher, Gabriella Zeyher, and Michael Zeyher, who brought so much love and joy to her life.

She is also survived by her brother, William “Bill” Napolitano, and his wife, Linda (Sarra) Napolitano, her niece and nephew, Cassidy Napolitano and Joseph “Joey” Napolitano; and many cherished family members and dear friends who held a special place in her heart especially Adele “Cookie” Collura who she loved very much.

Virginia had a way of making people feel warm, welcomed, and loved. Her gift for storytelling, quick wit, honest opinions, and adventurous spirit made her someone people were naturally drawn to. If you knew Virginia, she could turn ordinary moments into unforgettable stories, and her genuine love for others left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know her.

She was truly one of a kind. Her love will live on through her children and her grandchildren. The countless memories she created, and the stories that will continue to be told for generations

to come. Though she will be deeply missed, the love she gave so freely and the lives she touched will ensure that her spirit is never forgotten.

Private services will be held in Florida for immediate family. Please reach out to a family member for additional details.

In lieu of flowers, the family invites those who wish to honor Virginia’s memory to make a memorial donation to the ASPCA in her name. Virginia had a deep love for animals, and a donation made in her memory would be a meaningful way to honor her compassionate heart and help provide a better life for animals in need. To make a memorial gift in celebration of Virginia’s life, please visit the ASPCA website for more information.